What if it all really boils down to one choice? Just one. You can choose to hold on, manage, grip, CONTROL in order to get somewhere/something you think you need to be whole, complete, and perfect... or you can choose to…

I had a sassy email all ready to send you. About families and all the craziness we exchange...especially during the holidays. And then I got word that a beloved member of my hi-desert community passed suddenly.There's a lot of pain…

I come from the school of #BuyNothingDay. Of Reverend Billy and the Shopacolypse (and now the SHIPocalypse with all the product shipping). Of giving that doesn't include buying. So here are a few gifts for you because by buying nothing today on…

think about self-care a lot. Because of my super-sensitivity and the chronic pain I've danced with for over 20 years, it's a big ol' part of my life. I've embraced, resisted, ignored, played dumb, gone overboard, found peace, fallen flat…

The other night I cried a banshee-wounded-animal-wailing-holy-prayer-to-the-goddess cry. I had just closed out a beloved project/collaboration of almost four years and I was grieving the loss. Hard. The intense emotions flowed right through me like a sieve filtering sweetness, love,…

Navigating the balance of safety and shakin' shit up is so real for me. You too? (Plus, tonight's a full moon in Taurus which def has some "safety and security" vibes for us all.) My first coach ever* called my…

Me and my fave creative collaborator, the intuitive astro-genius Sandy Sitron, just launched a 5-month free, live webinar series! Journey into the mystery of your astrology chart and find cosmically timed transformation. Join astrologer Sandy Sitron and transformational coach Dana…

If you want to rise up, you've got to lighten your load. Don't let the comfort and familiarity block you from your blessings. The biggest hurdle when it comes to letting go, is trusting that there is something greater to…

I just watched a dear friend of mine write a $5,000 check (er, actually she just shared her debit card info...less visually stimulating) for an upcoming event. She wrote it with such ease, clarity, and confidence. Like not a single…

It's my birthday. I'm 37. I'm not afraid to get older. I'm 100% way cooler now than I was at 27. Sure my shit was perkier and my hair was shinier, but geez I was messy. Drank too much. Felt…