You know you’re not in alignment with the truth of who you really are when something feels bad. I don’t mean uncomfortable or on your growing edge. I mean contracted. I mean pit-of-your-stomach something-is-not-right here intuition. I spent a lot of time in my life talking myself out of my guts and into my head. There were a lot of…
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falling on my face (literally)
I did a few super fun podcasts this week (one is up here) where I talked about falling on your face and getting up with a little more grace and ease as the result of doing deep inner work. You’ll never stop falling, but how hard you hit the ground and how elegantly you get back up is totally up…
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goodbye perfection! hello perfection!
My Libra ass has had some long-standing dances with perfection. I thought that if I did things just so or had things all buttoned up/locked down/my ducks in a row, that everything would be easier. That I’d be on the “right” path. I was trying to control and overly manage my external reality to try and shift my internal reality….
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{video} Day 1: 3 Things Keeping You in Confusion & How to Get to Clarity
Here’s Day 1 of my 5-day #ConfusiontoClarity series and I’m so excited to dive right in! Are you’re seeking clarity in some big or small areas of your life? Career, partnership, purpose, city, family? And you’re feeling oh so ready to move through the fog of confusing thoughts and into the rest of your life? Well, give the replay above a watch,…
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how do I know if I want kids? confusion to clarity.
I always thought I would just be the cool auntie, the one without kids who would be a bright guiding light of magic and justice for all the little humxn kittens in my world. But recently, I’m feelin’ curious. I’m not pregnant. I’m fairly certain I don’t want children. (Side note: I acknowledge that this convo is predicated on my…
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ego vs intuition
A bright soul recently asked me about how to tell the difference between her inner voices when she’s asking for inner guidance⏤the ones that fight between THIS and THAT, YES and NO. She is not alone. So if you ever find yourself feeling stuck/confused/deflated because of frustrating, feuding inner voices, the ones that just can’t seem to shut up or…
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grandmother’s cup
grandmotherThis is my grandmother’s cup. It’s small, just like she was. We had the same size hands even though she was 4’10” and I am 5’10”. She drank out of this everyday, says my auntie who gave it to me a few years ago with the note “I know you like a small cup, your grandmother did too.” Auntie claimed…
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mediocrity, hard work
If you’ve got some big feels and deep dark shadowy bits rising to the surface (especially intimacy and relationship issues), know that it’s perfect timing — even if it’s hard. All we have to do is look outward and see that the same is happening collectively and remember that we, yes we, can do hard things. I did a gorgeous…
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